The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest

Professional dominatrix Lady Zombie is the special guest on the last episode of 2014 of The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love! This badass scary woman dishes on BDSM, kink and the underworld of New York City. Lady Zombie explains why 50 Shades of Grey is NOT an accurate representation of BDSM. For those of you who want a better sexier movie, check out the kink-approved film Secretary!

Billy looks back on 2014 and what his year has looked like. There have been many ups and downs for him but the comedian is happy with what he's accomplished and looks forward to the exciting year ahead. What are your sexual achievements of 2014? What sexy goals do you have for the upcoming new year? Email those to!

Kink can look like all sorts of things. Lady Zombie teaches us about medical play, blood play and sounding and what it's like to have another person's life quite literally in your hands. Billy just doesn't want anything to go in his urethra!

Do you want to take your pants off with Billy Procida? Come join the No Pants Subway Ride on January 11 in New York City! Email in to RSVP and we'll gather the Manwhore Podcast Army together!

Check out Lady Zombie online:
Twitter: @LadyZombie

This week's episode is (unofficially) sponsored by Ali's Savage Traits. For your very own customizable fangs, visit!

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Direct download: 2014-12-31-Lady-Zombie.mp3
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Happy holidays, whores! Billy sits down with Susie for the first time in 8 years. Susie reveals that he was her first kiss! Billy shares his first kiss story with a bit less enthusiasm. Susie also admits that she is still a virgin at the age of 25. Interesting!

This is my first Christmas away from my family following a disagreement over Thanksgiving. Thank you all for listening and being with me in spirit during the holidays.

Susie and Billy discuss the "bases." What do you consider to be second base? Email in YOUR base labels. Plus, Susie confuses "room jobs" for "rimjobs," which is just f*cking adorable.

Susie is a devout Christian. Billy is an atheist. SITCOM! Hear an interesting conversation about religion's role in developing Susie's sexuality.

Love the love! Both of these hopeless romantics should be singing Queen's "Somebody To Love." Susie has never had a boyfriend and we all know about Billy's dating woes! Love makes things special and awesome, including sex.

Support Dillon Birdsall's documentary by checking out V-Card: The Film on Facebook! Watch Dead Panda Comedy's Warm and Fuzzy video about love!

This week's episode is sponsored by candy corn. Candy Corn: We're not just for Halloween anymore.

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Direct download: 2014-12-24-Susie.mp3
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Self-described cougar Monica joins us on The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love. Comedians Billy Procida and Monica discuss marriage, divorce and infidelity. Monica hates to tell ya, but your happy relationship is probably not as happy as you think. As House taught us: everybody lies.

Monica was one of Billy's first cougars. She was ever so gentle. Is age just a number or a valid restriction to make? Young guys seem to swarm to Monica and Billy shares the moment he swore off 18-year-olds. As our funny guest puts it, "My p*ssy needs a bouncer!"

Billy laments about leaving a sex party alone and going home to an empty bed. Love continues to elude your humble host but he remains optimistic. So for now, he'll just have to keep enjoying having sex with amazing women. But if one of them wants to go out to dinner with him, that would be pretty cool, too.

Monica and Billy are both stand-up comedians in New York City. The debate about whether comics should date or sleep with each other arises yet again. Can two depressed, self-loathing funny people be mature adults about breaking up?

Check out Monica's show: Safe Word Podcast.

Twitter: @MokaVida

This week's episode is sponsored by tragedy because like tragedy, you'll never forget this episode.

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Direct download: 2014-12-17-Monica.mp3
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The legendary Nikki from Tinder returns to The Manwhore Podcast on this week's episode. Nikki rejoins Billy to catch up and chat about his serial killer-like wall of Post-It notes. Nikki also analyzes Billy's assortment of masturbation lubricants and empty cans of Diet Pepsi.

Billy discusses the recent controversial episode of HBO's The Newsroom regarding campus rape and how being right sometimes makes you the assh*le. He also brings up the recent Eric Garner and Mike Brown (and who knows whichever murdered black man) decisions to not indict police officers in the line of duty. It's about to become a long drought for cops looking to get laid.

Nikki brings up her recent dating life and experiences using online dating. Billy recounts her request to organize a gangbang for her. The two also trade random impressions involving asking for more peen.

This week's episode is sponsored by books. Books: to remind other people that you're better than them.

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Direct download: 2014-12-10-Nikki.mp3
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This week's special guest is latex fetishist Kelly Lee Dekay. Kelly talks to Billy about being a BDSM domina and explains the difference between her various slaves. Kelly explains the wonderful origin story behind her latex fetish and her goal to become a fabulous comic book super villain.

Billy gives advice to one listener about whether or not to text a guy back. Despite his morning-after cuddles, this listener is worried about one big problem.

Kelly Lee Dekay is all about letting your freak flag fly! She explains the real truth about lifestyle tightlacing and how her corset fetish lets her realize the kinky lady she wants to be. Plus, Billy learns about fashion icons like Mr. Pearl, Alexander McQueen and Fakir Musafar.

Check out Kelly Lee Dekay online!
Twitter: @kellyleedekay
Instagram: kellyleedekay

This week's episode is sponsored by chicken because inhumanely slaughtered animals taste the same as happy dead animals.

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Direct download: 2014-11-20-Kelly-Lee-Dekay.mp3
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Super meta episode with Alice on this week's Manwhore Podcast! Billy sits down with Alice for one his weirdest episodes with his stand-offish guest. Gangbang planning and hopes of a threesome were off-limits, as well as one other very messy topic that shall go forever unmentioned. They do get to talk abotu BDSM and being submissive though!

Anti-porn feminism is not impressing Billy yet as he reads Gail Dines's book Pornland: How Porn Has Hijacked Our Sexuality. As you've heard him say before, the answer isn't less porn; it's more porn! He and Gail Dines are just not going to get along as he reads her questionably researched book.

Size talk returns in a different form this week. Ladies (and fellas) who like the dick: which dimension matters most to you? Length or width? Or is it depth? Or the 4th dimension of time or Interstellar's 5th dimension that I don't understand? Billy thinks the angle is more important to help you get that nice dep stroke.

Billy chats with the hosts of the hit comedy podcast Keith and The Girl about their upcoming 10-year anniversary. Donate to their Kickstarter for their annual podcasting marathon!

This week's show is sponsored by backgammon because just like the clitoris, not enough men know what it is.

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Direct download: 2014-11-26-Rachael.mp3
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Billy and Amanda reunite 8 years later after a fun bonding night of getting naked with each other as teenagers. The two met on a People to People Leadership Conference, a pre-college program where hormonal high schoolers get together for ten days to learn how to be leaders and flirt with one another. PWYLO: Purple With Your Lanyards On!

Billy shares some crazy stories from his People to People experience. Disneyland. Bleeding pussies. Grinding. And so is the beginning of The Manwhore. Plus, the elusive search for love.

Amanda and Billy chat about coming into their own as sexual beings. Both were once outcasts as they discovered their worths in the dating sphere. She was the typical nerd girl, bringing Pokemon cards to school and dressing up for cosplay conventions. Billy was the chubby socially awkward kid who didn't know how to talk to women. Now they're both rocking blowjobs, hot sex and dating mishaps!

Ladies: how do you shave your pussies?

Check out The Drinking Partners Podcast and The Raging Vaginas!

This week's show is sponsored by wallets. Like my former loves' hearts, my wallet is empty.

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Direct download: 2014-11-19-Amanda-Carto.mp3
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Billy hops in bed with Olivia and Olivia's roommate Lauren for the most clothed threesome ever! The three chat about their very different views on dating and relationships. Hear their thoughts about online dating and apps like Tinder.

Guess which one of the gals says, "Get it out of my face!" in regards to oral sex. Meanwhile, the other just loves to give a good blowjob. Billy is perplexed by the confusing state of opinions about casual sex, masturbation and sexting. Although we can all agree on one thing: Fellas, keep your d*ck pics to yourself!

Billy gives the update on his lady situation and gives some advice to an anxious listener who recently had a hysterectomy.

Hear Billy on the infamous Guys We F*cked podcast with his slutty sisters-in-arms Corinne Fisher and Kyrstyna Hutchinson! 

This week's episode is sponsored by fantasy football. Whenever you wanna get bent over, fantasy football is always there to f*ck you.

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Direct download: 2014-11-12-Olivia.mp3
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Feminist pornographer Sophie Delancey proves that blowjobs can be empowering and fun! Billy chats with special guest Sophie, Vice President of The Art Of Blowjob. This Canadian describes what running a small porn company entails and what made her ditch her dreams of singing opera for working in the adult entertainment industry. Plus, she explains why feminism and porn can go hand in hand!

Billy discusses the depressing state of sex education in America's schools. Because of the lack of sex ed in public schools, young adults are learning all about sex from porn. Hear the pros and cons of this on The Manwhore Podcast! For a full breakdown of paltry sex ed requirements, check out the Guttmacher Institute State Policies brief.

Sophie Delancey hasn't only produced porn. She discussed what it was like giving tender, loving blowjobs on-camera. Sophie also describes what it's like dating someone while working in porn. She is also a pretty kinky girl. Hear about how this kinky feminist straps it on to take the dominant role!

If you like blowjobs, check out and get yourself a membership! For free porn, you can see Sophie's very NSFW Tumblr: Follow her on Twitter: @sophiedelancey.

This week's episode is sponsored by waking up late. Go ahead and sleep in! You don't need to write that screenplay today.

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Direct download: 2014-11-05-Sophie-Delancey.mp3
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Billy Procida is joined in the studio/his apartment by comedians Jessica Michelle Singleton and Natasha Pearl Hansen. He has not made out with either of them (yet? ever?) but they are hilarious women in town for New York City's She-Devil Comedy Festival. The three comics chat about gender and comedy. These gals implicitly answer the age-old question: Can women be funny? The answer is: DUH!

Jessica recalls her experiences dating comedians and why slut-shaming stigma causes her to turn down certain road gigs. Natasha gives her perspective on dating while making comedy the priority. Billy just wants someone to love him, comedian or not!

Do women need their own comedy festival? Is the industry ready for funny females? Can the Tina Feys one day outweigh the Kim Kardashians of our pop culture? Christ, we hope so. The three analyze the pros and cons of 'affirmative action' comedy booking.

Billy was on the Lust for Life podcast with comedian James Mattern to talk about The Manwhore Podcast and Billy's slutty and not-so-slutty days. You can listen here.

You can see Billy dance his face off at What The Float on Nov. 1. for tickets. You can see Billy perform on Nov. 4 at King's County Saloon in Brooklyn at 9pm (FREE).

This week's episode of The Manwhore Podcast is (acutally) sponsored by Hot Octopuss. Buy yourself or your favorite man a PULSE. Use the code Whore20 for 20% off your very own gubrator!

Follow everyone on the Twitters! Billy is @TheBillyProcida. Jessica is @JMScomedy. Natasha is @NPHcomedy.

Keep track of their projects on Natasha's website and Jessica's website.

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Direct download: 2014-10-29-Natasha-Jessica.mp3
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Mistress Jay returns for a body positivity episode! Jay and Billy discuss their struggles with body image and self-love. Plus, Jay shares about her experience participating in a talk show's on-air weight loss challenge. Come on, Hollywood. Ya can't let a girl keep a $20 scale?!

Online dating: what do you put down for body type? Is it better to be comfortable with your choice or for your selection to be accurate for those browsing? Jay and Billy battle over the word 'curvy'. They also chat about fat-shaming and when being morbidly obese becomes unhealthy.

This week's episode is actually sponsored by Hot Octopuss. Buy a PULSE for yourself or a man in your life with the promo code Whore20 for 20% off your purchase.

Join Billy at What The Float on Nov. 1. Get your tickets now before they go up. Just $10.

So many wonderful things to share with you. For more on body image, body positivity, weight and sex, check out these Big Love Links:

Billy's struggle with disordered eating on xoJane.
XL Love by Sarah Varney
Health at Every Size |
Gabi Fresh |
Pretty Girl Glam |
Regini |
/r/Chubby (NSFW)


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Direct download: 2014-10-22-Jael.mp3
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Cate and Billy hooked up back in their early days of comedy. Cate returns to discuss her past boyfriends, the good and the ugly. If you want to break up with someone near their birthday, do you wait until before or after?

Cate's ex-boyfriend said he was polyamorous. In reality, he was just an assh*le. Plus, Billy redefines her definition of 'slut'.

Do you pay for porn? You should! Porn star Siri from #TeamBJ wrote a fantastic article for The Kernel about the drastic effects watching stolen porn has on the adult entertainment industry. Fight porn piracy…and pay for your damn porn. Check out the article here! Follow Siri on Twitter: @SIRIpornstar.

Join the Manwhore at the last dance float of the year. Check out What The Float's website for details.

Cate looks like she works in a sex toy shop. Billy is giving away a free secret awesome sex toy for men and couples from his sponsor. Just tweet this link to the show on Twitter and use the hashtag #ManwhorePodcast!

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Direct download: 2014-10-15-Kait.mp3
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Billy drops by Christina's art studio to reminisce on old times. The two met through Craigslist, but not the casual encounters section. Christina recruited Billy from Craigslist for an unsusual art project that took an interesting turn.

Billy and Christina ponder their singledom as they discuss online dating, scandalous affairs and sexting. Fellas: quit it with the dick pix!

Sex is a fun thing to do in a bedroom…or backyard, back of a taxi cab or bar bathroom. Public sex can be both fun and risky (which is part of the fun!). When was the last time you took a risk? Plus, Billy laments about his fantasy football woes.

Support Slut: A Documentary Film by buying a "Define 'Slut'" t-shirt and combat sexual bullying and slut-shaming. Follow @unslutproject on Twitter for updates on Emily Lindin's noteworthy project.

This week's episode is sponsored by sporks. Sporks: for the trendy hipster.
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Direct download: 2014-10-08-Christina.mp3
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Polyamorous person Leon Feingold guests on a very special episode of The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love. Billy and Leon discuss the ethics of polyamory and responsible nonomonogamy. He is also the co-founder of Open Love NY, a poly group in New York. Check them on their website for info on poly meet-ups!

Leon's polyamorous. His girlfriend is monogamous. SITCOM! Hear how their relationship lasts with different dating needs. Billy seeks advice about potentially dating outside of the poly pool. Plus: the difference between polyamory, swinging, open relationships and Republicans.

Polyamory is all about the love. But sex is pretty cool, too! Leon describes putting together New York's first poly building!

This week's episode is sponsored by the word "compersion" because it's freaking adorable.

Follow Open Love NY on Twitter: @OpenLoveNY. Submit your poly questions to Poly Wanna Answer.

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Direct download: 2014-10-01-Leon-Feingold.mp3
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This week's guest is fashionista designer gal Jenna. Billy and Jenna went on an apparently one-sided horror date that caused Billy to receive a spite blowjob. It's important for a woman to have self-esteem but Jenna could use just a little bit of humility. Or Billy's just a giant jerk.

Jenna has given up on online dating and most dating in general. She's sadly not met a guy of quality yet. Plus, it's pretty hard having sex at home when you're living with your parents.

You should join Billy at What The Float! on Saturday, Sept. 27! Don't get fancy; just get dancy! Come dance your face off around the streets of New York City. For info, go to

This week's episode is sponsored by sun tan lotion, because it deserves one last shout out before we wont' need it for 7 months.

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Direct download: 2014-09-24-Jenna.mp3
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Sketch comedy writer Lisa Vikingstad reunites with Billy to bring closure to a short, but intense, courtship between two comedians. Lisa talks about her rule for dating comedians. I mean, it can't be worse than that time she accidentally dated a gay boy in high school.

Craigslist: it's not just for murderers and rapists anymore! Plus, Lisa teaches the listeners an adorably verbose game to play with your linguistic lover.

Billy opens up about his gambling addiction. His addiction was a primary dealbreaker to this potential relationship the first time around. Gambling is an addiction not taken as seriously as drugs or alcohol. So the question is raised: can you date an addict?

This week's episode is sponsored by loud air conditioning units because soon they'll be packed up and tucked into the closet.

Check out Lisa's blog: Making Better Bad Decisions. You can also see her sketch team perform every month at The People's Improv Theatre in New York City. Look for Totally, Yes! on The PIT's schedule.

Follow Lisa Vikingstad on Twitter: @LisaVikingstad. While you're there, say, "Hi!" to @TheBillyProcida and use the hashtag #ManwhorePodcast.

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Direct download: 2014-09-16-Lisa.mp3
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Billy joins porn star Sara Jay! This adult entertainment veteran chats about sexual health, the porn industry and body positivity. Sara Jay is a business savvy adult performer who produces, directs & stars in her own videos for her members-only website and loves her job!

Billy was just in Las Vegas to participate in #TeamBJ. Thanks to Germany's World Cup win, Sara Jay and fellow porn star Siri serviced their Twitter followers and your favorite manwhore took advantage of the free BJ.

Porn star sex and real world sex aren't always the same. But for Sara Jay group sex and ass worship are fun both on- and off-camera! Plus, she explains why monogamy may not be a fit for her.

Want to win a free one-month membership to Sara Jay's members-only website? Tweet a link to the show with the hashtag #ManwhorePodcast by 9/16 and I'll select a lucky person to enjoy a free month of premium porn!

This week's show is sponsored by fedoras. Fedoras: they'll make you look super cool when they don't make you look super creepy.

Check out Sara Jay's website or her merch site. Follow her on Twitter @SaraJayXXX.

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Direct download: 2014-09-10-Sara-Jay.mp3
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Billy reunites with Allie for a fantastic trip down drunken memory lane. Apparently, Billy is Escalade Guy! Allie recounts how they were caught in the back of a black Escalade by her then-girlfriend. Oops. Billy was marked with the Scarlet A with a neck full of hickies because, karma.

Trigger Warning: This episode involves a story regarding a sexual assault. If you have a history of rape trauma, you may want to skip this week's show or a portion of it.

Allie admits to some infidelity in her past. Billy just went on a first date with a woman who admits to cheating on many of her past boyfriends. Would you date a cheater? Have you cheated? Email the show and tell us what you think!

Allie has caught the love bug. The two brainstorm how she can drop the L-bomb on her younger boy toy. My first recommendation? Don't have important talks via texting. Because we're freaking adults. Plus, Allie drives a fork lift at work. Who wouldn't fall in love with a woman like that?!

This week's episode is brought to you by Republicans, because they're the best at screwing people (over).

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Direct download: 2014-09-03-Allie.mp3
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NYU friend Sarah joins Billy to get the low down on dirty talking vs. "nice talking". The two chat about the various online dating services Sarah won't be joining: Tinder, JDate, JSwipe. She's simply content on bar hook-ups.

Billy goes on a rape rant. Oops. Idiot Standford student Chris Herries compares a woman's vagina to a bike in the latest public victim shaming comments. I doubt he knows how to ride a "bike" very well. Plus, Billy updates listeners on his love life.

Do you always use condoms? How often do you slip up? Billy tries to understand what causes Sarah to be undisciplined when it comes to safe sex. Why not ensure your own safer sex with a free Manwhore Podcast condom?!

Are you a squirter? Sarah wants to know. Just make sure you lay down a towel.

This week's episode is sponsored by the NFL: where you can beat your wife so long as you're not high on marijuana when you do it.

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Direct download: 2014-08-27-Sarah.mp3
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Kat is a Tantra practitioner, Burning Man participant and polyamorous lover. Basically, she's freaking fantastical. Kat and Billy chatted about how she came to accept the title of sex worker and how she came out to her parents about how she makes a living. Plus some crunchy hippy existential chatter about Mother Goddess and oneness. Cool stuff!

I am Buddha Steakhouse! Hear me roar! Kat, codename Candy Lion, tells us about Burning Man and how she got her burner name. Mine? Buddha Steakhouse.

How much body hair do you like on a woman? Can women with hairy armpits be sexy? Chime in! Kat feels sexiest with smooth legs, full pits and a little downstairs trim. The burner also shares her favorite uses for period blood. Wait, what?! Yea. Listen. Dig it.

And check me out on Keith and The Girl

This week's episode is sponsored by flip-flops. Flip-flops: At least we're not Crocs.

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Direct download: 2014-08-20-Kat.mp3
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This week's theme song should be, "I (Kinda) Kissed A Boy (And I Liked It!)" Sasha is Billy's first gender queer guest on The Manwhore Podcast. Sometimes she's a girl. Sometime's he's a boy. Sometime's they are everything! The two discuss gender roles and labels as well as Sasha's journey of sexual and identity self-discovery. Billy might have tried to flirt with her. Oops.

The sex party was fun. Next question, please.

Sasha's father used to run a Russian mail order bride service. What?! Yes. We learn that "looking for a wife is like shopping for a car." Gross, but fascinating! Plus, Billy tires his hand at singing the popluar love ballad, "Lola."

Jim Norton wrote a great op-ed piece for Time Magazine titled, "In Defense of Johns." Check it out!

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Direct download: 2014-08-13-Sasha.mp3
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This week's guest is group sex guru Jefferson. Jefferson is a sex educator, sex blogger, storyteller and organizer of New York City's Bukkake Social Club (it's like bridge, but with more semen). We talk about blowjobs, threesomes & orgies. He also gives Billy some tips before he goes to his first sex party this weekend! 

Jefferson discusses what type of women want to be on the receiving end of a bukkake and how he juggles the consent of each individual person at an event. All while trying to maintain his erection! 

Check out this awesome IndieGogo campaign for the pd.ID. The personal drink identifier detects if your drink has been drugged. These Canadians are trying to raise $100,000 to make this invention a reality and you should really support it. A $75 donation will land you your own early version of the product. 

Check out Jefferson's live storytelling show series, Bare, in New York City, Philadelphia, Washington D.C. and more at Follow him on Twitter at @OneLifeTakeTwo

This week's episode is sponsored by pillows because I can't wait to go to sleep right now. 

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Direct download: 2014-07-30-Jefferson.mp3
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Billy and Michelle record directly after completing a RandomActOfMuffdive. What is that? Go check out /r/RandomActsOfMuffdive for yourself! The two chat about the finer points of cunnilingus and Michelle gives Billy a live review of his performance! Plus, our guest shares some suggestions to the fellas out there wondering how they can better please their lady friends while going downtown.

Hey frat boys: no more fingerblasting. Stop it! And stop trying to go in girls' butts without asking first. This isn't a porno.

Billy wrote a very personal piece on about his struggles his body dysmorphia and disordered eating. "Guys may self-deprecate. We may not like our bodies as is. But we don't do eating disorders." Check out the article.

This week's episode is sponsored by physical therapy, for those times you throw your shoulder out trying that crazy new sex position.

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Direct download: 2014-07-30-Colleen.mp3
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Elexa's boyfriend of 8 years refused to have sex with her. Listen to why she thinks he couldn't give a lady what she wanted. It might be why she's struggled to claim that elusive female orgasm.

My good friend Elexa got real, telling me why our brief dating history was as brief as it was. "I remember wanting to punch you in the face." Hear why she decided we'd "just be friends." Billy gets an opportunity to give her advice as well. What's proper long distance texting etiquette…if you're not a couple yet?

Ever buy a dildo but it just didn't feel right? Now you can make your own customized 3D-printed dildo. Check it out at

Billy gives the low-down on buying jeans with a man-booty and curvy hips.

This week's show is brought to you by bed sheets. Bed sheets: Wash them when you feel like it or when you can't get away with it anymore.

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Direct download: 2014-07-23-Alexa.mp3
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Lee admits that Billy would be a great boyfriend, just not her boyfriend. She presses Billy about his polyamorous proclivities. But emotions can be toxic. Billy's feelings towards Lee caused a great Friends With Benefits situation to end. He was a little crazy lovesick. This Aussie native doesn't apologize for breaking his heart but she does apologize for giving bad blowjobs.

Lee has vaginismus. Learn about this frustrating condition that kept her from having sex for years! Plus, we hear about Blendr. Never heard of it? Yea, that sounds about right.

If you want to date Billy, you need to watch Chasing Amy. You also need to be able to handle his various faults, which he and Lee go over in detail.

Have you read The Ethical Slut yet? Press pause. Go get it. Live a better life.

This week's episode is brought to you by Starbucks, because they let me edit the show inside while it was raining without buying anything.

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Direct download: 2014-07-16-Bimini.mp3
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This is a special episode of The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love. Billy interviews "Sherry", a legal prostitute in Amsterdam's historic Red Light District. They talk about the pros and cons of sex work. Sherry tells us about dating as a hooker and how working girls need love, too! Plus, she dishes about a few kinky clients!

Billy went to a nude beach with a couple of friends and it didn't get weird. Seeing your friend's boobs makes for a fun weekend.

Do you think prostitution should be legalized in the United States? Why or why not? Have you ever had sex for money? Chime in.

For more information on sex work in the Netherlands, visit Advocacy Group for sex workers in the Netherlands or Sex Work Information Centre websites.

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Direct download: 2014-07-09-Sherry.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 6:00am EDT

Elle is a fellow NYU Fighting Violet who loves public sex and dating the older crowd. But recently, she's found herself on OkCupid exploring her bi-curious side looking for a lady to hook up with. This hottie sits down on The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love to trade sex stories and give young men pointers.

Elle is in love with "Sergio" in Argentina. Buenos Aires steals yet another young American heart with a study abroad 'roadmance'. Billy recalls learning about Magnum condoms from Degrassi: The Next Generation from a date.

The Supreme Court ruled in favor of Hobby Lobby. Meanwhile, Americans still aren't quite sure what the store sells besides whackjob religious "beliefs". And thanks to the cranky men up on the hill, there's no better time to protest an abortion clinic than the present! That's legal now, too.

How'd you lose your virginity? Elle's probably got ya beat!

This week's episode of The Manwhore Podcast is sponsored by Narnia, where corporations aren't people but God is a lion.

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Direct download: 2014-07-02-Laura.mp3
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Billy and Amanda get emotional and playful on this week's show. Amanda has been experimenting with casual sex, sleeping with men in hopes they will like her. She also continues to sleep with her ex-boyfriend (who Billy thinks is a total assh*le). If you still go out with your ex after breaking up, aren't you still "dating your ex"?

Billy went to Coney Island's Mermaid Parade this past weekend. Slap the pasties on and let your freak flag fly! He saw quite a few pairs of boobies and phenomenally-costumed drag queens. Keep Brooklyn weird!

Amanda expresses her love of playing with buttholes. Billy shows her something that blows her mind!

Please don't drink and drive, sluts.

Who would you marry from Orange Is The New Black? Boy Meets World? Amand and Billy debate. Plus a fun round of Cast That Porn!

This week's episode is sponsored by air mattresses. An air mattress is a perfect chastity device for those who can't afford World of Warcraft.

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Direct download: 2014-06-25-Amanda.mp3
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Special guest sex researcher Dr. Zhana Vrangalova sits with Billy to discuss hooking up and alternative sexuality. Ever one-time jerk off your roommate in a heat of passion in college, but you don't identify as bisexual? Yea, that's what Dr. Vrangalova calls "mostly heterosexuality". We talk about being "mostly straight" and sexual orientation labels.

Dr. Vrangalova is the mastermind behind The Casual Sex Project. This community sex story archive lets you know it's okay to sometimes let your freak flag fly or to have some no strings attached fun by normalizing what is sometimes still socially condemned promiscuity. Plus, Billy accidentally slutshamed the whores who aren't poly. Oops.

Billy opens up some more about his spontaneous trip to Amsterdam. Have you satisfied wild urge lately? Try it!

This week's episode is brought to you by TD Bank: America's sexiest bank.

Follow Dr. Vrangalova on Twitter @DrZhana and you can stay up to date with all of her research on her website

That song "Euphoria" is by Motopony.

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Direct download: 2014-06-18-Dr-Zhana-Vrangalova.mp3
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Emily becomes an unpaid advocate of hook-up dating app Tinder. She's fallen in love after plenty of swiping and now she tells us why she ditched OK Cupid for Tinder. Online dating presents all sorts of "rules" regarding female sexual aggression. It's confusing! The two also talk about the rules of casual sex for women.

Catcallers: your validation! Emily feels "appreciated" by a good catcall on the street. What about you? Do you find it disgusting or strangely sweet?

Oops! Billy went to Europe out of nowhere. Why? No idea. He broadcasts from Iceland because, the world. Plus, the Red Light District offers up a pleasant surprise! #internationalwhore

Billy and Emily play a new game and agree that, for the good of society, Kim Kardashian needs to be killed! Duke porn star Belle Knox comes up yet again.

This week's episode is sponsored by Orbitz. Orbitz will let you fly anywhere in the world that has legal prostitution. Orbitz: turns on your red light.

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Direct download: 2014-06-11-Emily.mp3
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Madeline Lewis is an actress in New York City who has lots of advice to give. For example: never call a woman a spinster! Oops. My bad. Madeline does not like online dating and likes to take things slow. Now she's in an obnoxiously adorable two-year relationship with a man she met at, wait for it: the Ren Faire! Hear how she's not afraid of being a woman on the prowl making the first move. Screw gender roles!

Madeline and Billy talk about virginity and following one's own sexual journey, however kinky or vanilla it may be.

Madeline doesn't need any crazy kinks to have fun sex! No accessories needed. Billy continues to push the phrase "vanilla shaming." It's real. Plus: Cast That Porn!

Lifebuzz lists 10 Old-Fashioned Dating Habits We Should Bring Back. Which ones do you hope your next date does?

New York City comedian Ray Gootz wrote an excellent article for, "The 33-year-old virgin: Life without sex is only torturous if you let it be."

You can see pictures of Madeline in some sexy lingerie on her website I mean, she also has acting reel stuff there. 

This week's show is sponsored by Twitter, for the guy who keeps his social media like he has his sex: short, sweet and sometimes funny.

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Direct download: 2014-06-04-Madeline.mp3
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Kathy is classy and Irish Catholic. Billy is a slutty athiest. SITCOM! They both have a fun conversation about fickle dating standards, sexual histories and marriage. Kathy is a young ex-fiance and recalls the red flags leading to the end of her military engagement. The two ponder a world where Catholic priests are allowed to have casual sex. If you saw the Pope on Tinder, would you swipe right? 

Slut shaming continues to plague our country after the Belle Knox incident and Alyssa Funke's recent suicide. Billy rants about the tragic state of sex education in schools. Alice Dreger's article asks, "What If We Admitted to Children That Sex Is Primarily About Pleasure?"

NEW DRINKING GAME! Take a shot every time Kathy says "madonna/whore complex". For your health, I edited out a few of them. Plus another great round of CreepyPMs Theater.

This week's episode is sponsored by prolactin. Prolactin: making you think twice before going for Round 2.

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Direct download: 2014-05-28-Kathleen.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 5:00am EDT

Ladies would you take a man's virginity? Diana's iffy on it. Diana joins us on The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love this week. She drops some truth bombs on Billy, smashing his fantasy of their past and reminding him of a time when he was kind of a d-bag. They met on a few years ago and reunite on this episode to talk about sex in public, oversharing and the importance of going down on a woman. They both share their "numbers" and play a fun round of Cast That Porn!

Diana also shares a story about having sleeping with a man with one hand…and didn't realize it until afterwards! Plus, apparently zombie-faced Halloween sex can lead to a healthy relationship.

Congratulations to Idaho, Oregon and Pennsylvania on recognzing marriage equality for same sex couples!

This week's episode is sponsored by Godzilla. Godzilla: like an annoying drunk friend, he has the ability to ruin somebody's threesome.

Check out Sounds Like an Earful Podcast to hear me talk podcast oversaturation. Watch the very funny Mike Recine on Conan!

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Direct download: 2014-05-21-Diana.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 4:00am EDT

It was so much fun reuniting with Kaylee on this week's episode of The Manwhore Podcast! This is definitely the most quotable episode so far! Here are some of Kaylee's choice lines:

"My brother is freaking hot!"

"I love a big d--k."

"I just don't want to put stuff in your butt."


And much more!

The article is called 16 Lies We Need to Stop Teaching Boys about Sex by Kate Hakala. The Rolling Stone article is called Tales From the Millenials' Sexual Revolution by Alex Morris.

This week's episode is sponsored by popcorn. Popcorn: it almost makes you forget that you're home alone watching Netflix.

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Direct download: 2014-05-14-Kailey.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 4:00am EDT

Kimi has called off her engagement, so Billy educates her on the current online dating scene. Kimi's worried about her sexting skills and Billy recalls their cousin-kissing mutual acquaintance. Should incest be a "to each their own" issue? The two also ponder why finding a healthy relationship is so difficult.


Billy's high school reunion went well, even if he did use 94 Weight Watchers points. Fasting ensues!


This week's episode is sponsored by Ikea, because relationships are a lot of hard work and the instructions don't make sense.


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The sexting study mentioned is titled <a href="" target="_blank">"Love the Way You Lie: Sexting deception in romantic relationships"</a> by Drouin, Tobin and Wygant.

Direct download: 2014-05-07-Kimi.mp3
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Billy sits down with a very horny Jess on this week's episode of The Manwhore Podcast. Here's someone whose sluttiness rivals even Billy's! Jess admits she's a bit demanding in bed when she's drunk (as her friend delivers us some wine). Billy schools us on fair market value for a happy ending massage. And the two of them debate Jess's No Condoms policy. "The tubes are now tied! Don't worry!"


Billy also stresses about <a href="" target="_blank">buying a bed</a> and an upcoming high school reunion.


This episode is sponsored by peanut butter in bed. When life's got you down, peanut butter will keep you in bed.


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Direct download: 2014-04-30-Jess.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 1:32am EDT

Billy and Jay get kinky on this week's episode of The Manwhore Podcast. This week's show talks about buttplugs, bronies, and BDSM. Pegasisters unite! Jay questions Billy's fluid sexuality which leads to an interesting story about a Craigslist casual encounter. Jay also rates Billy's 'Sub' skills.

As the Lord & Savior Mika once said, "Big girls, you are beautiful!" How much do you value confidence over looks? Who's at fault: surface level jerks or dishonest default pictures? These things and more on this week's episode of The Manwhore Podcast!

This episode is sponsored by Dominos. Dominos: it makes you go to the gym tomorrow.

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Direct download: 2014-04-23-Jael_1.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 4:00am EDT

Ep. 1: Tinder Tales and Gonorrhea with an Ethical Slut

Billy sits down with his first guest Nikki, a one-time Tinder hook-up, on the inaugural episode of The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love. The two talk about the new app that might help your oral sex skills (LickThis App). They also chat about the pitfalls of Tinder dating, polyamory, and even play a round of "Cast That Porn". Does every lady's special time really "smell like pennies"? 

If you fool around with someone, are you obligated to have sex with that person? I mean, the guy has to have sex with them if offered, right? This gender hypocrisy and more arise on the first exciting episode of The Manwhore Podcast!

This episode is sponsored by chocolate. Chocolate: it solves any break-up.

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The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures is by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

Direct download: 2014-04-16-NikkiFixed.mp3
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